A difficult subject

Sonny · 11-14-2009, 08:29 AM

Ill leave it up to you all to discuss or not ( of course )

But something that has always lingered out there is heaven forbid if anything would happen to one of us, how would you like to be " honored "

The recent death down in CINCI and even last years with Ohio Riders loosing a member it freshens the memory..

You can PM me if youd like or post something also..

On one site when a user passed they planned a big post funeral party and there was quite the discussion if this was appropriate, on junkies in cinci they did this for stu :
http://www.assfaultjunkies.com/ ( video on greet page )

For me personally thats the last thing I would want if God forbid my number comes up..

For me personally :

Sure Id like some members and friends to show to my funeral, and perhaps in time gather at nice spot and do a nice ride / tribute.. BUT FOR SURE, no where near my mom or family, they hate bikes and my Mom would be mortified..

The matter of passing is never an easy one to talk about so Its ( obviously ) a personal choice to post or not..

homer · 11-14-2009, 09:28 AM

family and friends are my life... if youre comfortable with coming out, the more the merrier is what is say.

cappi1000 · 11-14-2009, 10:16 AM

I always tell Jodie.....build a great big fire and toss me in.....have some beers or whatever and party.....I am dead.....you are celebrating the life that was had, not the death.....as no one can escape that!

Stupe · 11-14-2009, 10:44 AM

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Originally Posted by cappi1000

I always tell Jodie.....build a great big fire and toss me in.....have some beers or whatever and party.....I am dead.....you are celebrating the life that was had, not the death.....as no one can escape that!

+1.... sure it would be a sad day,but have'n my friends around and laugh'n it up and talk'n about stuff thats happened in my/our past is what i'd want..

Sonny · 11-14-2009, 04:07 PM

Nice replies.. Its a tuff thing to talk about as bikers..

Im mostly talking about your funeral / service.. Id love everyone for sure to come out ( im getting cremated so I guess I mean SERVICE ) but I wouldnt want any bikes THERE... Later heck yea a nice tribute would be awesome..

I watched the video of the junkie and they were doing burnouts at the gravesite.. Just got me thinking is all....

Last year when we did that Tribute ride and we spoke of the few on here that have passed and talked about doing that ride in the future... Alot of those things also hit home.. I was really day dreaming all day ya know..

Awesome song :

YouTube- Sixx am - Life is beautiful

slvrhwk · 11-14-2009, 07:18 PM

Very good song.

By far I dont want any sadness at my funeral. Make it fun with smiles all around.

crazy_red · 11-15-2009, 07:01 PM

Being that I came the closest I ever have this past summer, I would say I dont want any morning. I want to be known for living my life to the fullest. So I say party and NO saddness. Now with that said I have done alot of soul serching since I decided to meet the back of a minni van. I have just a few thoughts to share.
1 Always tell the ones you care about how you feel no matter what.
2 Always wear your gear and safety devices. Yes I am guilty of not doing this.
3 Live life to the fullest.
4 Never live in fear. Fear will rule you so don't let it.
5 I have never been prouder to be part of anything like I am of TSBR.

vash the protector · 11-15-2009, 10:06 PM

bag pipes.

charlie2744 · 11-19-2009, 01:13 PM

I was able to listen to my dying sisters wishes for her funeral and that help me.
I am sure it helped her as well but for those that loved her being involved, meant a lot.
Sort of a different situation, as she had several weeks to get everything arranged, but still sort of the same, as we all know we are going to go sooner or later...hopefully later.
A living will is a must. I have told Lori not to let me lay there poopin myself.
I would like to have as many people fill the Church as possible.
And like others have said, celebrate my life rather than any loss.

This is the toast I give every New Years eve to my pal Joe Died 09-24-08.

"There are good ships, the wood ships, the ships that sail the sea,
But the best ships are the friendships, and may they always be."

Whiteboy · 11-19-2009, 07:46 PM

Ill be Skipping this thread!!

mike s · 11-20-2009, 01:09 AM

I would like TSBR to lead the hurst to the grave yard. Also I would like to have the Marine corp and TSBR flags flown on the way there and at my site. Then have you guys do a burnout or wheelie or something.

Aleks The Serbian Prince · 11-20-2009, 01:24 AM

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Originally Posted by mike s

I would like TSBR to lead the hurst to the grave yard. Also I would like to have the Marine corp and TSBR flags flown on the way there and at my site. Then have you guys do a burnout or wheelie or something.

me too!!!! better remeber this shiiit or ill hunt ALL U MTF down 1 by 1lol....

save this thread just incase which i hope we dont have to....

Stupe · 11-21-2009, 03:58 AM

heres one for ya.. ya ever have a dream of dying? one where you actually see yourself die? and not wake up before as most people do lol...i've had a few over the years(3-4 times) since i've been a kid around 10ish..there never the same,but there all related to drowning in some way..i'll see myself drowned,the air bubbles come'n up and everything..then i'll see myself in the casket at the funeral home, then see my grave marker at the cemetery with the fresh dirt pile humped up, and my family around it,and people i dont even know lol..all from like an overhead view look'n down.. they(the dreams) dont really make sense though..oddball stuff that doesnt really fit together at all lol.. really weird stuff..im be'n serious here.. none of the drug/etc. comments please..just thought i'd throw that out lol..

charlie2744 · 11-21-2009, 10:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Stupe

heres one for ya.. ya ever have a dream of dying? one where you actually see yourself die? and not wake up before as most people do lol...i've had a few over the years(3-4 times) since i've been a kid around 10ish..there never the same,but there all related to drowning in some way..i'll see myself drowned,the air bubbles come'n up and everything..then i'll see myself in the casket at the funeral home, then see my grave marker at the cemetery with the fresh dirt pile humped up, and my family around it,and people i dont even know lol..all from like an overhead view look'n down.. they(the dreams) dont really make sense though..oddball stuff that doesnt really fit together at all lol.. really weird stuff..im be'n serious here.. none of the drug/etc. comments please..just thought i'd throw that out lol..

Hair too long? Music too loud?
Those are my only guesses.

Stupe · 11-21-2009, 11:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by charlie2744

Hair too long? Music too loud?
Those are my only guesses.

lol.. seriously, you've never had a dream where you die? i just take it as an omen and watch myself around water lol...

charlie2744 · 11-21-2009, 11:55 AM

On a more serious note....(j/k bout the long hair )
I have never had a dream where I died.
I'd like to see what that means...the drowning thing.

Sonny · 11-21-2009, 01:21 PM

I have some dreams where Im lucky enough to talk to my dad I dont know if this means I died or just dreaming about him...

I also have odd dreams about Ky but I assume its just because Ky and the effort owning property so far away is on my mind alot. That or again thinking about my Dad

charlie2744 · 11-21-2009, 03:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sonny

I also have odd dreams about Ky but I assume its just because Ky and the effort owning property so far away is on my mind alot. That or again thinking about my Dad

I think I can interpret that dream......does anybody yell...
SQUEAL LIKE A PIGGY IN THOSE DREAMS?

11-14-2009, 08:29 AM	#1
Sonny Founder / Co-Admin ROSSI STYLE ! MiniPool Champion! Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Toledo Posts: 23,320	A difficult subject Ill leave it up to you all to discuss or not ( of course ) But something that has always lingered out there is heaven forbid if anything would happen to one of us, how would you like to be " honored " The recent death down in CINCI and even last years with Ohio Riders loosing a member it freshens the memory.. You can PM me if youd like or post something also.. On one site when a user passed they planned a big post funeral party and there was quite the discussion if this was appropriate, on junkies in cinci they did this for stu : http://www.assfaultjunkies.com/ ( video on greet page ) For me personally thats the last thing I would want if God forbid my number comes up.. For me personally : Sure Id like some members and friends to show to my funeral, and perhaps in time gather at nice spot and do a nice ride / tribute.. BUT FOR SURE, no where near my mom or family, they hate bikes and my Mom would be mortified.. The matter of passing is never an easy one to talk about so Its ( obviously ) a personal choice to post or not.. __________________ MY PROFILE MY PHOTO ALBUM MY VIDEOS MY WEATHER MAP MY P.O. BOX 2010 Ky Trip RSVP Thread TMCF ON FACEBOOK TMCFus @ Twitter >DISCOUNT I.D. PROGRAM < TMCF ID has saved me @ Honda East $ 3065 + Savings on 9 Bikes = ?? + Various other vendors Good things happen to good people.. Not everytime, not all the time but in time.. Many times , just in time.. Last edited by Sonny; 11-14-2009 at 04:03 PM.

11-14-2009, 09:28 AM	#2
homer Superstar Buell Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Toledo Posts: 1,828	family and friends are my life... if youre comfortable with coming out, the more the merrier is what is say. __________________

11-14-2009, 10:16 AM	#3
cappi1000 Active Site Member Laguna Seca Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 940	I always tell Jodie.....build a great big fire and toss me in.....have some beers or whatever and party.....I am dead.....you are celebrating the life that was had, not the death.....as no one can escape that! __________________ THE ONLY LIMITS YOU HAVE ARE THE ONES YOU CHOOSE TO CREATE.... I CHOOSE TO HAVE NONE

11-14-2009, 07:18 PM	#6
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11-15-2009, 07:01 PM	#7
crazy_red Active Site Member Catalunya Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Perrysburg Posts: 874	Being that I came the closest I ever have this past summer, I would say I dont want any morning. I want to be known for living my life to the fullest. So I say party and NO saddness. Now with that said I have done alot of soul serching since I decided to meet the back of a minni van. I have just a few thoughts to share. 1 Always tell the ones you care about how you feel no matter what. 2 Always wear your gear and safety devices. Yes I am guilty of not doing this. 3 Live life to the fullest. 4 Never live in fear. Fear will rule you so don't let it. 5 I have never been prouder to be part of anything like I am of TSBR. __________________ The crazzier you come the happier you'll leave. http://www.tmcf.us/forums/showthread...ighlight=crazy http://www.facebook.com/#/douglas.irvin1?ref=profile http://www.myspace.com/crazy_red419

11-15-2009, 10:06 PM	#8
vash the protector Superstar Buell Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: holland, Ohio (Adam) Posts: 1,885	bag pipes. __________________ link for your CCW class http://www.tmcf.us/forums/showthread.php?t=10653

11-19-2009, 01:13 PM	#9
charlie2744 Superstar KURTIS ROBERTS Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: 6418 Miles N.N.W. of Spoonbooty Posts: 1,227	I was able to listen to my dying sisters wishes for her funeral and that help me. I am sure it helped her as well but for those that loved her being involved, meant a lot. Sort of a different situation, as she had several weeks to get everything arranged, but still sort of the same, as we all know we are going to go sooner or later...hopefully later. A living will is a must. I have told Lori not to let me lay there poopin myself. I would like to have as many people fill the Church as possible. And like others have said, celebrate my life rather than any loss. This is the toast I give every New Years eve to my pal Joe Died 09-24-08. "There are good ships, the wood ships, the ships that sail the sea, But the best ships are the friendships, and may they always be." __________________ http://www.tmcf.us/forums/showthread.php?t=13823

11-19-2009, 07:46 PM	#10
Whiteboy 10,000 STUPE ZONE Post Super Duper Star Join Date: Dec 1969 Location: Josh Posts: 10,618	Ill be Skipping this thread!! __________________ 2009 & 2010 Chili Cook off Winner, Thank you !!!! Meguires Caringbridge Website http://www.caringbridge.org/oh/meguire/

11-20-2009, 01:09 AM	#11
mike s Active Site Member Pillion buster Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Bowling Green Posts: 585	I would like TSBR to lead the hurst to the grave yard. Also I would like to have the Marine corp and TSBR flags flown on the way there and at my site. Then have you guys do a burnout or wheelie or something. __________________ Get it " Can of TUNA "

11-21-2009, 03:58 AM	#13
Stupe 10,000 STUPE ZONE ROSSI STYLE ! Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Findlay,Ohio Posts: 19,676	heres one for ya.. ya ever have a dream of dying? one where you actually see yourself die? and not wake up before as most people do lol...i've had a few over the years(3-4 times) since i've been a kid around 10ish..there never the same,but there all related to drowning in some way..i'll see myself drowned,the air bubbles come'n up and everything..then i'll see myself in the casket at the funeral home, then see my grave marker at the cemetery with the fresh dirt pile humped up, and my family around it,and people i dont even know lol..all from like an overhead view look'n down.. they(the dreams) dont really make sense though..oddball stuff that doesnt really fit together at all lol.. really weird stuff..im be'n serious here.. none of the drug/etc. comments please..just thought i'd throw that out lol.. __________________ "CHICKENSTRIPS ARE FOR CRUISERS AND STRAIGHTLINERS" www.jazzmotorsports.com www.myspace.com/rr_mike www.hondaeasttoledo.com

11-21-2009, 11:55 AM	#16
charlie2744 Superstar KURTIS ROBERTS Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: 6418 Miles N.N.W. of Spoonbooty Posts: 1,227	On a more serious note....(j/k bout the long hair ) I have never had a dream where I died. I'd like to see what that means...the drowning thing. __________________ http://www.tmcf.us/forums/showthread.php?t=13823

11-21-2009, 01:21 PM	#17
Sonny Founder / Co-Admin ROSSI STYLE ! MiniPool Champion! Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Toledo Posts: 23,320	I have some dreams where Im lucky enough to talk to my dad I dont know if this means I died or just dreaming about him... I also have odd dreams about Ky but I assume its just because Ky and the effort owning property so far away is on my mind alot. That or again thinking about my Dad __________________ MY PROFILE MY PHOTO ALBUM MY VIDEOS MY WEATHER MAP MY P.O. BOX 2010 Ky Trip RSVP Thread TMCF ON FACEBOOK TMCFus @ Twitter >DISCOUNT I.D. PROGRAM < TMCF ID has saved me @ Honda East $ 3065 + Savings on 9 Bikes = ?? + Various other vendors Good things happen to good people.. Not everytime, not all the time but in time.. Many times , just in time..

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